We all want to live with happiness. But tell me, "How much are all of us living a happy life?" Reason is the clear, we all are living the life with full of tension, fear, complaints, useless thinking and useless talking which carry us on the way of sadness. So, direct your mind which way you have to choose.
There are two powers in the world. One is fear and other is fear. They can not live together inside your body. If you love dogs. If you are animal lover. If you enjoy the dogs near to you. If you feel happy when dogs are near to you. So, you will never feel fear when you will near to dog. It is because, you love dogs. So, love all others. Leave fears. Love the death because death is the natural system of God. Never fear from your death. If God loves you, he will call you and your body will die. So, Love more, fear less.
Follow 7 Steps if you want to live your life with full of happiness.
1. Think less, Feel More
If you want happiness, you have to start think less and feel more. You know, you think with brain and you feel with heart. When you start to think about the good or bad on any matter. This thinking will carry you just on the way of stress and tension. You have calculate that matter is so bad because you have the facts which you measured. If anybody did bad with you, you think, why did he or she bad with you? Leave it. It will not keep you happy. Start the feel.
a) Feel The pain of helpless and start help and again feel his happiness after your help. It will bring happiness in your heart.
b) Feel the problems and difficulties of others. Try to Solve them and feel happiness when you will solve the problems of others.
c) Feel that whole nature is singing of God.
d) Feel, Good time is Coming.
e) Feel true love of other.
f) Feel your internal and voice of truth. Never work with dishonesty.
2. Frown Less, Smile More
If you want to live your life with full of happiness, you have to change your face. Your face is the clear look of your inside body. It is the camera which capture your inside mind's picture and movie. If you smile more with the help of your face, others will come to you to make friendship because your face smile, they can imagine, you are in good mood and you are happy from inside. Only doing this, your business will grow. Your problems will solve. If you will change the face with full of frown, all will fear from you and they think you are angry person. So, order to get out frown from your face and bring more smile on your face.
3. Talk Less, Listen More
God want to make our life with full of happiness, because he made two ears and one tongue. It means, God is saying us, if you want to become happy, listen more and speak less. We do not obey the order of God. Use our more energy on talking without using our energy to listening. So, we do mistakes. Due to this mistakes, we face the problems. So, always be happy by obeying this Great Silent Order of God.
4. Judge Less, Accept More
Judge as less as possible and Accept as more as possible. Why? Human is the statue of mistakes. God is great judge. He never do any mistakes. So, he always more judge and never accept the order of human being. If you will become judge, you will lose your relationship. Because your judgement may be your selfish. It may be injustice for others. So, leave to judge and start to accept. Never accept the situation with condition. Never say, I will accept your love proposal if you will jump from first floor. It must be unconditional. So, it will bring happiness. If you will accept more, other will accept your proposal more. Your life will become more simple.
For example, two brothers are fighting each other on the truth or lie point. One is saying, you are speaking lie. Other is saying, you are speaking lie. You are the friend of both. So, if two brother will come to you for judging who is speaking lie. Never become judge. Just say, I am so busy, I have no time for this judgement. With this, you will be accept the situation as it is. So, no one angry with you because you did not injustice with any one.
5. Watch Less, Do More
If you will watch less and do more, you will get lots of health benefits. So, if you are healthy, you will feel happiness.
a) With watching less, you will not increase the stock of undigested food in your stomach.
b) With doing more, you will strong, your body and mind.
c) With watching less, you will see less advertisement. So, you will save more money for future happiness.
d) With watching less, your eyes will save.
6. Complain Less, Appreciate More
If you will complain what you will get. Nothing. Teachers complain to parent, his children are not doing home work. What will its benefit? Parent punish their children. Children will never complete the home work. Instead of doing this, teachers should appreciate if any child do small home work. This is the energy for your children and they will feel happy and you will also feel happy.
For example, if your customer complain that he did not get the delivery. You should not start complain that you are speaking lie. You should say, "I am sending the delivery again. I will feel happy if you return previous delivery because, I have no proof of past delivery, I only remember, I sent the delivery. This is the solution. Complaints increase the debate and fight. It will disturb your happy life. Leave it and start appreciating others.
7. Fear Less, Love More